In Honor of 2nd
Lt. Pamela D.
Donovan
2nd
Lt. Pamela
D. Donovan: Pamela was born to Irish
parents,
Joyce and Ted Donovan, in the
Pamela Donovan did what some
There is much more to her story as we were to learn from Pamela's
sister
Liz, who we have been in touch with. Liz referred us to the
book
their mother, Joyce Donovan, had published, Grasping The Nettle.
According
to her mother, in May of 1968, she was advised that
Pamela had gone
to the beach and suffered severe sunburn and was hospitalized in Qui
Nhon where
she was stationed. During her recovery, Pamela made an audio tape for
her
parents in which she "sounded happy and in good spirits." (Background
info: We believe this beach to have been
In
subsequent
letters she told her parents
of her plans to travel to
Shortly after in June of 1968, Pamela's mother was hospitalized.
Pamela
wrote to her mother daily giving her great support.
On July 4,
1968, Joyce and Ted (Pamela’s parents) received a
cable from
Another cable arrived from
On July 9 a limousine came to her parents front door as a high ranking
officer
informed them that Pamela had died the previous day, July 8th and that
the
cause of her death was pneumonia.
Ted
telephoned
the Army Nursing Recruitment Headquarters in
July 12 the post office brought a letter to Pamela's parents from their
dead
daughter, dated July 3, five
days before her death:
"Dearest
Mummy and Daddy, I know over the
years you have been unhappy, as I have been unfaithful to the Church
and to
going to Mass and the Sacraments. Well, I want you to know that last
night I
went to the Chaplain out here to Confession, and this morning I went to
Mass
and Holy Communion. I feel a new person..... All my love Pamela. "
On July 18 Pamela's parents received the death certificate: "Died 8
July
1968 in
In
September the family received a second death certificate with
an additional sentence added: "Self destruction while mentally
unsound".
It does not seem possible that this woman, so happy on July 3rd, could
have
taken her own life five days later.
6 months after her death a nurse friend of Pamela's from
All of this leaves so many questions unanswered. However know matter
how many
questions the life of Pamela leaves, it makes very clear that
2nd Lt.
Pamela Donovan was a brave, caring and compassionate Irish woman who
gave the
ultimate sacrifice for the love of others.
Peace
be with you Pamela. With all our Love,